Friday of the Fifth Week - April 11

Jeremiah 20:10-13 John 10:31-42 

The readings from Jeremiah and John share threads of perseverance, faith under pressure, and unwavering trust in God. Jeremiah struggles with betrayal, yet finds strength in God, declaring Him to be with him “like a mighty champion.” This lesson is always hard for me to remember, but when I do I have found immense comfort in trusting Him. 

Jesus faces hostility and accusations from those who misunderstand and oppose Him. Both Jeremiah and Jesus exhibit steadfast faith, drawing their strength and purpose from God. 

I have been married to my wife, Allie, for five years and we have been blessed by God with two wonderful boys. Growing up in a small family, I had limited experience with small children and babies. I was used to order and having control over my life. Having children was a huge adjustment. Becoming a father has been one of the hardest and most rewarding experiences of my life. 

Throughout my life I’ve used control as a coping mechanism to curb anxiety. Living with a three and one year old does not allow for control. Fatherhood has shown me that God is the only truly in control, and I need to trust Him and remember that God is with us and will continue to be with us-similar to how He shows up like a champion in Jeremiah. 

Every day is a learning experience as a father and husband. Fatherhood has allowed me to grow; it challenges me daily to let go of things and embrace life’s challenges. I would not be who I am today without the blessing of fatherhood. 

These passages resonate with me deeply. Fatherhood involves providing for your family, being a role model, and protecting those you love. I draw from these scriptures the courage to lead with humility, faith, and perseverance. I have learned that trusting in God is the only way to find true peace. During this Lenten season I will continue to strive to be a better father and husband each day.  

Q: What have I learned from my current life roles? How has my faith helped me?

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